The Conditional Validity of “No One Can Make You Feel Inferior”: Autonomy, Therapy, and Social-psychological Constraint

Xuanxi Zhou

doi:10.54254/2753-7048/2025.NS29670

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The Conditional Validity of “No One Can Make You Feel Inferior”: Autonomy, Therapy, and Social-psychological Constraint

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The Conditional Validity of “No One Can Make You Feel Inferior”: Autonomy, Therapy, and Social-psychological Constraint

Xuanxi Zhou ^1*

¹ Experimental High School Affiliated to Beijing Normal University

^*Corresponding author: cynthiazhou0128@gmail.com

Published on 19 November 2025

LNEP Vol.114

ISSN (Print): 2753-7056

ISSN (Online): 2753-7048

ISBN (Print): 978-1-80590-511-0

ISBN (Online): 978-1-80590-512-7

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Abstract

This article looks at Eleanor Roosevelt's saying, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent," and how it might be used in many social, developmental, and psychological situations. The argument stresses how autonomy and agency can help people reject outside judgments, which could lead to better performance. It does this by using principles like internal locus of control, resilience, unconditional positive regard, and the strategic acceptance of inferiority. These elements show when Roosevelt's claim is true. It also talks about some basic limits on people's freedom. Cultural frameworks that are deeply ingrained, bad things that happened in childhood, and natural personality traits can all hurt someone's sense of self without meaning to. According to empirical studies on trauma, personality traits, and social rank theory, these psychological and institutional restrictions diminish agency. To restore autonomy, the research underscores the imperative for therapeutic approaches, such as Adlerian, psychodynamic, and cognitive training procedures, that enhance self-efficacy, recontextualize detrimental cognitive patterns, and modify maladaptive emotional responses. The study posits that Roosevelt's assertion is conditionally valid: individuals may dismiss emotions of inferiority if they possess the psychological resources and resilience; but, structural and personal constraints often supersede individual sovereignty. Roosevelt's higher emphasis on self-determination and empowerment aligns with therapeutic approaches that facilitate the reclamation of personal agency.

Keywords:

inferiority, autonomy, agency, resilience, therapeutic intervention

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